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If you read what everybody else reads, you can only think what everybody else thinks.

~ Haruki Murakami

If you came here looking for neat pre-packaged answers, then you’ve come to the wrong place. Seduction requires study, a very small amount of expense and boots on the ground; it’s not all available from websites, seminars and books. You can replace some of the boot time by studying, but there is a minimum you must do. You will not become a Seductionist by sitting in a classroom, joining a seduction club or signing into a seduction message board.

Now, you may be thinking that we have chosen to be unforgiving bastards, but when was anything worthwhile achieved without effort? Any neophyte who swims into view, asks, gets, and departs has learned nothing about the realities of carrying out a seduction in a professional manner. People learn nothing by being told – they learn when they do it.

Next, should you disbelieve that Seduction is about being a Lover rather than a Fighter, then you should first click here, followed by here. This said, if you still wish to begin remedial education in the craft of seduction, then the following list will give you some pointers, however do remember you will only see results with practice.

Before you begin
Some books to help you avoid being taken in by Flimflam artists

In the event of mild Anxiety / Social phobias / Lack of confidence etc.
Many people have found that therapies such as NLP have provided a cure

More advanced NLP and Therapy
For more serious issues. Some people have also used advanced NLP in seduction

History / Autobiography
Where better to begin than by learning from the past?

Easy-to-understand post-primers
Everyone has to start somewhere

Sociobiology
Sociobiology attempts to answer “why?” questions about sex

Strategy and Lying
You need to start with good strategy, and it helps to be able to detect liars

Persuasion
You will need to be persuasive with people you meet

Fantasies and Emotions
If you can help people fulfil their fantasies, they will be very grateful

Hypnosis and Suggestion
A virtual panacea: deal with issues, become a Raconteur, improve sex, notice suggestibility etc.

Building your relationship
Things to talk about, and stuff to do

Advanced Sex (If you were expecting a section on ‘Basic sex’, this is the best we can offer.)
Sex is fun, but it’s good to experiment

Alternative and taboo sex
It’s only about 30 years since The “Joy of Sex” was a revolution, so much is still new here

Films with a seduction theme
Mostly for fun, rather than being particularly educational