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September 30th, 2008

How long without sex?

A silly conversation led to the following question being asked…

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How long could YOU go without having sex?
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September 29th, 2008

Advice from a man: 40 ways women fail in bed

  1. Milking it: When stroking a guy’s dick don’t grab it like a bus rail and start jerking it like you were milking a cow. Don’t use the penis as if it’s a piece of gym equipment to strengthen the forearms. The male organ is a thing of wonder and beauty, and should be worshipped and held tenderly at all times. The sensitive part is at the top (where your face should be), not two-thirds of the way down.
  2. Being naked: Very few female bodies are good to look at, so please make an effort to cover up as much as possible with exotic lingerie. Match the outfit to suit your body. If you’ve got a half-decent arse but no tits for example, wear stockings and suspenders and cover your meagre mammaries with something silky.
  3. Poor presentation: Presentation is all important. Don’t wait to be asked to get it doggy-style. Roll over and present – you know you love it.
  4. Silent fright: If you’ve come and cannot be arsed to scream to show your appreciation, at least make some sort of sign to inform the guy that he’s done his duty and can blow his biscuits whenever he wants. A finger up his arse should do the trick.
  5. Phone turn-off: Don’t put your mobile phone next to the bed and say: “I’m just waiting for a call from my hairdresser to confirm an appointment but we can carry on in the meantime.” Ringing bells might have turned Quasimodo on, but not your average stud with ten pints of lager inside him.
  6. No laughing matter: Don’t laugh if your creative male lover gets carried away and says things like “Ride my hard cock you filthy cock-sucking slut” or “Yeah, swallow my man-custard, bitch“. Laughter at any aspect of the male performance will not enhance it. Just be grateful you’ve got a guy who can speak whole sentences.
  7. Closing up: If a man is willing to take the trouble to come on your face, don’t close your eyes. He wants you to share this ecstatic moment of joyful union with him. Semen is not likely to cause permanent blindness (in most cases) but this is a risk you should be prepared to take for his happiness.
  8. Too bright: If the man switches the light off, it’s for a reason, so please don’t insist on seeing what’s going on. If he’s got a bit of a beer belly or a love bite from a shag earlier that day, it’s his right to keep such matters to himself. If he wants it dark so he can imagine he’s shafting Natalie Imbruglia, please understand this fascinating aspect of the male psyche.
  9. Hanging around: When he is done, you should not kiss and cuddle, he does not want to touch you. You should leave the bed and leave him in peace. If you are a one-night stand you should leave the premises without thieving anything or asking for a phone number.
  10. Being shy: Always offer the Marmite Motorway. If you don’t like it that much, still offer it as you can quite easily play with yourself as he rams away.
  11. Being a drip: You always have tissues in your bag, so use them to clean his sheets and any ball bag drippage, if you’ve misbehaved and not swallowed everything.
  12. Lack of maintenance: Never ask a man if he likes your body as you will force him to lie. Men don’t like fat chicks; get to the gym, lose some weight and tighten those buns and thighs. There’s no such thing as the perfect body – 99.6 percent of men say that even Christy, Elle, Naomi etc. could still lose a few pounds – so what chance have you got?
  13. Clock-watching: Never, ever, ever, ever even think of saying: “Are you going to come soon?” If you’re doing a blowjob, you’d have to take your mouth off to utter the question. If you’re giving a hand-job, you should have gone to the gym to work your biceps. Or if he’s shagging you and takes more than 10 minutes you should be grateful. This is not a time trial but a blissful act of union between two sexually aware and gifted human beings.
  14. Fishing for compliments: Don’t ask him if you’re the best lover he’s ever had. Most men have had so many sexual partners that it is unlikely that you are. Please don’t ask a man to lie about such an important thing.
  15. Playing dead: Don’t just lie there, do something. Good sex is not a spectator sport and it helps if both parties move around a bit. I know you expect the men to do all the hard and skilful work. We don’t mind that and we’re blessed with the equipment and know-how to do it, but at least put some effort into the act to show your appreciation.
  16. Being possessive: If you are lucky to have an imaginative lover who can satisfy two women at a time, don’t sneer at, or reject his exciting suggestion that one of your friends joins you to make up a threesome. If he’s a real man he’s probably shagging her anyway. Plus you might learn something from her to keep your man really happy.
  17. Not keeping your hair on: Don’t shave all your pubic hair off. It makes your pussy look like a piece of poultry, past its sell-by date. At best, it looks like the snatch of a ten-year-old. If you want to trim, go for a nice sexy racing stripe in the manner favoured by the Playboy models that your man would rather be shagging.
  18. Spitting it out: When a man has gone to so much trouble to ejaculate and get his aim right into your mouth, it’s rude to spit it out without savouring the taste and gluey texture. You should play with semen like a block of Hubba Bubba, blowing bubbles, chewing and throwing from side to side. A line like “I love it when you come in my mouth” makes for a happy finale to fun and games.
  19. Ingratitude: Never forget to thank a man for all the effort and energy he has expended on making love to you – especially if a) sex has lasted more than five minutes and/or b) you managed to achieve an orgasm. A man’s role in sex is far more demanding than a woman’s, so it is always nice when one’s prowess is appreciated.
  20. Seeking favours: Never contemplate taking advantage of your man’s warm after-sex glow to seek favours or make requests. As he drops off into well-deserved slumber, resist the urge to ask: “Do you think I should buy that dress/skirt/sofa/Mercedes/country cottage?” there is a name for the practice of mixing sex with material gain – Prostitution.
  21. Bed-ridden: Too many women fail in bed because they insist on being in bed. Very few countries have statutes limiting horseplay to a designated room. Let yourself go with some sex in the study, bonking in the bathroom and kinkiness in the kitchen. If you’re lucky, your man might imagine he’s bonking someone sexy and adventurous and he might manage a larger, harder erection.
  22. Caring not sharing: Whilst it is understandable that you would be excited after receiving a mouthful of cum, do not be thoughtless in expressing your gratitude by kissing your man on the lips. You like semen, He doesn’t. Be considerate, please.
  23. Lethal weapons: A guy’s scrotum is a wondrous aesthetic achievement of nature to be treated gently. Don’t squeeze his balls like you’re squeezing water from a sponge. If you have long nails pull them off with pliers before even looking at a guy’s ball bag.
  24. Robots: When sucking a guy’s dick don’t just get on the end of the thing and jam your head back and forward. It’s a beautiful instrument; it should be caressed, inspected, kissed and licked from every angle.
  25. Playing the name game (1): Never embarrass a gentleman by challenging him to remember your name after he’s shagged you. If he thought it was important to remember your name, he would have.
  26. Playing the name game (2): Don’t be angry if you’re lover shouts out another woman’s name during the sexual act. Men have much more complicated lives than women and deal with many more people at work, football club, gym, pub, etc. It’s probably just a close associate and totally innocent. Of course, he might be shagging someone else in his spare time, and it is understandable that he could make such an obvious mistake.
  27. Keeping him waiting: Don’t get him all turned on and the let his proud stiffy whither while you go to the bathroom and tone and moisturise every square centimetre of your body. The male erection can be sensitive to 45-minute delays while you go off to make yourself look presentable. If you must follow a strict beauty regime, do it after he’s shot his load and has started to snore.
  28. Toothache: When we ask you to eat our cock, this should not be taken literally. I know it’s hard to resist but keep the tooth action to a little nibble now and again.
  29. You can’t hurry, love: If a woman is serious about good oral sex as part of foreplay, 20 minutes is the bare minimum required to give the subtle and complex penis a reasonable working over. Better allow for 45 minutes at least.
  30. Two-dimensional: It’s not enough to be a specialist – even in the important skill of fellatio. To be regarded as a successful woman in bed you must have a full portfolio of tricks. These should include a penchant for facial glazing and a familiarity with idiosyncrasies of your man’s anal region.
  31. Camera shy: If he wants to capture the beauty that is you during those special moments (so he can remember the bits he missed because he was drunk), help him by posing in a gorgeous, pouting way for the camera or video camera.
  32. Unsweet smell of excess: While men are more than happy to lick the pink clam, please give it a bit of a wash once or twice a week. You can have too much of a good thing.
  33. Obsessive: The female orgasm is over-rated; so don’t spoil everybody’s fun by insisting on having one, every time you have sex. Of course, if you do have lots, you should feel free to announce them.
  34. Period pain (1): It’s natural for a woman to beg for a good seeing to, but please do not a) pretend your period has finished or b) that it hasn’t even started. Just go without and let your man catch up with his fantasies about your friends, his young and pretty work colleagues and the girls he shagged before he met you.
  35. Period pain (2): Having said that (above), just because you’re on the rag, it doesn’t mean his natural and healthy urges have gone away. Don’t put sex off limits for the duration of your period. Use this special time together to work on your oral and massage techniques.
  36. The big switch (off): Nothing is worse than giving a man some encouragement and then not finishing the job. Such encouragement might be the slightest brush against any part of his body. So if he’s got a stiffy, you’ve got to deal with it, and take things through to their natural conclusion.
  37. Wake-up caller: Men have busy and demanding schedules, so please understand if he should occasionally (say three times a week) fall asleep while on the job. You should take it as a compliment that he feels so relaxed.
  38. TV sinner: The only TV programmes suitable for accompanying good sex are hardcore porn (especially involving yourself) or a football match. No chat shows or gardening programmes to be watched.
  39. Putting a dampener on the evening: Don’t make a fuss about sleeping on the damp patch. If God wanted men to sleep on the messy remains of coitus he would have given us a snatch.
  40. Cover up: If you have lured a man to bed under the guise of being a sultry temptress with long eyelashes and painted lips, please keep the illusion going until he has discharged his porridge gun or fallen asleep. If you really care about him, you will make sure he never discovers the terrible secret hidden beneath your caked-on make-up.

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September 28th, 2008

Advice from a woman: 40 ways men fail in bed

  1. Not kissing first: Avoiding her lips and diving straight for the erogenous zones makes her feel like you’re paying by the hour, and trying to get your money’s worth by cutting out nonessentials. A properly passionate kiss is the ultimate form of foreplay.
  2. Blowing too hard in her ear: Admit it, some kid at school told you girls love this. Well, there’s a difference between being erotic and blowing as if you’re trying to extinguish the candles on your 50th birthday cake.
  3. Not shaving: You often forget you have a porcupine strapped to your chin which you rake repeatedly across your partner’s face and thighs. When she turns her head from side to side, it’s not passion it’s avoidance.
  4. Squeezing her breast: Most men act like a housewife testing a melon for ripeness when they get their hand on a pair. Stroke, caress, and soothe them.
  5. Biting her nipples: Why do men fasten onto a woman’s nipples, and then clamp down like they’re trying to deflate her body via her breasts? Nipples are highly sensitive. They can’t stand up to chewing, so lick and suck them gently – Flicking your tongue across them is good – Pretending they’re a doggie toy isn’t.
  6. Twiddling her nipples: Stop doing that thing where you twiddle the nipples between fingers and thumb like you’re trying to find a radio station in a hilly area. Focus on the whole breasts, not just the exclamation points.
  7. Ignoring the other parts of her body: A woman is not a highway with just three turnoffs: Breastville East and West, and the Midtown Tunnel. There are vast areas of her body which you’ve ignored far too often as you go bombing straight into downtown Vagina. So start paying them some attention.
  8. Getting your hand trapped: Poor manual dexterity in the underskirt region can result in tangled fingers and underpants. If you’re going to be that aggressive, just ask her to take the damn things off.
  9. Leaving her a little present: Condom disposal is the man’s responsibility. You wore it, you store it.
  10. Attacking the clitoris: Direct pressure is very unpleasant, so gently rotate your fingers along side of the clitoris.
  11. Stopping for a break: Women, unlike men, don’t pick up where they left off. If you stop, they plummet back to square one very fast. If you can tell she’s not there, keep going at all costs – numb jaw or not.
  12. Undressing her awkwardly: Women hate looking stupid, but stupid she will look when naked at the waist with a sweater stuck over her head. Unwrap her like an elegant present, not a kid’s toy.
  13. Giving her a wedgie during foreplay: Stroking her gently through her panties can be very sexy. Pulling the material up between her thighs and yanking it back and forth is not.
  14. Being obsessed with the vagina: Although most men can find the clitoris without a map, they still believe that the vagina is where it’s all at. No sooner is your hand down there than you’re trying to stuff stolen banknotes up a chimney. This is okay in principle, but if you’re not careful, it can hurt – so don’t get carried away. It’s best to pay more attention to her clitoris and the exterior of her vagina at first, then gently slip a finger inside her and see if she likes it.
  15. Massaging too roughly: You’re attempting to give her a sensual, relaxing massage to get her in the mood. Hands and fingertips are okay; elbows and knees are not.
  16. Undressing prematurely: Don’t force the issue by stripping before she’s at least made some move toward getting your stuff off, even if it’s just undoing a couple of buttons.
  17. Taking your pants off first: A man in socks and underpants is a man at his worst – Lose the socks first.
  18. Going too fast: When you get to the penis-in-vagina situation, the worst thing you can do is pump away like an industrial power tool – she’ll soon feel lie an assembly-line worker made obsolete by your technology. Build up slowly, with clean, straight, regular thrusts.
  19. Going too hard: If you bash your great triangular hip bones into her thigh or stomach, the pain is equal to two weeks of horseback riding concentrated into a few seconds.
  20. Coming too soon: Every man’s fear. If you shoot before you see the whites of her eyes, make sure you have a backup plan to ensure her pleasure too.
  21. Not coming soon enough: It may appear to you that humping for an hour without climaxing is the mark of a sex god, but to her it’s more likely the mark of a numb vagina. At least buy some intriguing wall hangings, so she has something to hold her interest while you’re playing Marathon Man.
  22. Asking if she has come: You really ought to be able to tell. Most women make noise. But if you really don’t know, don’t ask.
  23. Performing oral sex too gently: Don’t act like a giant cat at a saucer of milk. Get your whole mouth down there, and concentrate on gently rotating or flicking your tongue on her clitoris.
  24. Nudging her head down: Men persist in doing this until she’s eyeball-to-penis, hoping that it will lead very swiftly to mouth-to-penis. All women hate this. It’s about three steps from being dragged to a cave by their hair. If you want her to use her mouth, use yours; try talking seductively to her.
  25. Not warning her before you climax: Sperm tastes like sea water mixed with egg white. Not everybody likes it. When she’s performing oral sex, warn her before you come so she can do what’s necessary.
  26. Moving around during fellatio: Don’t thrust. She’ll do all the moving during fellatio. You just lie there. And don’t grab her head.
  27. Taking etiquette advice from porn movies: In X-rated movies, women seem to love it when men ejaculate over them. In real life, it just means more laundry to do.
  28. Making her ride on top for ages: Asking her to be on top is fine. Lying there grunting while she does all the hard work is not. Caress her gently, so that she doesn’t feel quite so much like the captain of a schooner. And let her have a rest.
  29. Attempting anal sex and pretending it was an accident: This is how men earn a reputation for not being able to follow directions. If you want to put it there, ask her first. And don’t think that being drunk is an excuse.
  30. Taking pictures: When a man says, “Can I take a photo of you?” she’ll hear the words “__to show my buddies.” At least let her have custody of them.
  31. Not being imaginative enough: Imagination is anything from drawing patterns on her back to pouring honey on her and licking it off. Fruit, vegetables, ice and feathers are all handy props; hot candle wax and permanent dye are a no-no.
  32. Slapping your stomach against hers: There is no less erotic noise. It’s as sexy as a belching contest.
  33. Arranging her in stupid poses: If she wants to do advanced yoga in bed, fine, but unless she’s a Romanian gymnast, don’t get too ambitious. Ask yourself if you want a sexual partner with snapped hamstrings.
  34. Looking for her prostate: Anal stimulation feels good for men because they have a prostate – women don’t.
  35. Giving love bites: It is highly erotic to exert some gentle suction on the sides of the neck, if you do it carefully. No woman wants to have to wear turtlenecks and jaunty scarves for weeks on end.
  36. Barking instructions: Don’t shout encouragement like a coach with a megaphone. It’s not a big turn-on.
  37. Talking dirty: It makes you sound like a lonely magazine editor calling an 0898 line. If she likes nasty talk, she’ll let you know.
  38. Not caring whether she comes: You have to finish the job. Keep on trying until you get it right, and she might even do the same for you.
  39. Squashing her: Men generally weigh more than women, so if you lay on her a bit too heavily, she will turn blue.
  40. Not thanking her: Don’t forget that you’re lucky to have that goddess in your life. Be sure to thank her with both words and actions.

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September 27th, 2008

Male dominance no guarantee of genetic success

Genghis Khan

Genghis Khan, and a few rich, powerful men, might have spread their seed about pretty liberally. But a new analysis suggests that most socially dominant males contribute no more to the gene pool than do their supposed inferiors.

According to Joseph Watkins, a mathematician at the University of Arizona in Tucson:

An individual really doesn’t have the opportunity to set up things so their genetic information pervades the gene pool a long time in the future

It could happen because life is chaotic.

Theories concerning how genes flow through populations of organisms generally support this idea, which has been dubbed neutrality. But some anthropologists argue that cultural dominance can seal a man’s legacy. For instance, a rich and powerful father could ensure the status of his sons and grandsons.

To determine whether dominance could last more than a couple generations, Watkins joined forces with a team of anthropologists and geneticists to sift through the DNA of 1269 males from 41 Indonesian communities,

The researchers concentrated on stretches of the male-inherited Y-chromosome that change little from generation to generation. This allowed Watkins’ team to peer back in time more than 3,000 years.

Their search paid no attention to genetic traits that might offer an evolutionary boost and instead focused on “junk” DNA that flows exclusively from father to son. From this, out of 41 communities, from Bali to Borneo to mainland Indonesia, only five showed evidence of long-term dominance by a few male lines.

According to the researchers, three of those communities were in Sumba, a remote island where males are polygamous and clans vie for status and resources; and the genetic patterns seen in males from the other two communities could be explained by an influx of foreign workers in one case, and a recently settled village in the other.

The researchers agree that Temüjin proves that some powerful males can ensure their lineage – if not through prosperity, then promiscuity – but such men are rare, Watkins says.

Adding:

If I were to take 100 random Mongolians and follow their family lines, I wouldn’t have seen anything special.

Peter Underhill, a population geneticist at Stanford University, is also of the opinion that cultural traits that flow exclusively from father to son, like wealth and property, are unlikely to last.

Michael Hammer, a co-author of the study, noted:

Evolution is an equal opportunity system. No single group is going to persist as the dominant group for very long before something changes.

Wars, climate change, and diseases have all sent dominant males careening off their pedestals.

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September 26th, 2008

Science confirms strangers look sexier after boozing

In recent research, scientists have proven that “beer goggles” are real — other people really do look more attractive, if you’ve been drinking.

And, surprisingly, the beer goggles effect was not limited to just the opposite sex; since among the presumably straight volunteers recruited for the study, which was reported in the journal Alcohol and Alcoholism, subjects rated people of their own sex as being more attractive, as well as the opposite sex.

Marcus Munafo, an experimental psychologist, at the University of Bristol, gave 84 heterosexual college students chilled lime-flavoured drinks that were either completely non-alcoholic, or given a dose of vodka equivalent in alcohol content to a large glass of wine or a pint-and-a-half of beer.

Then, after 15 minutes, the subjects were shown photos of 40 other college students, of both sexes.

Men and women who drank alcohol found these faces more attractive, and gave them a roughly ten percent increase in ratings of attractiveness.

The researchers also asked volunteers to rate their moods, and noted:

…there were no differences on those measures in the alcohol group compared to the no-alcohol group. This suggests that the effect we observed wasn’t due to a general change in mood.

Continuing:

Everyone knows about beer goggles, but some of our results suggest that there’s more going on than we might have thought.

The discovery that the effect is not specific to the opposite sex is surprising. One possibility is that alcohol makes us see things as more attractive generally, but when this occurs in social situations, such as at a bar, “this might become targeted at opposite-sex faces,” Munafo said. So, by repeating the experiment with video clips shot at bars, the researchers hope to recreate those social cues and see what happens.

Munafo added:

The main question is whether these effects are specific to faces, or whether we would rate anything as more attractive after a drink,

Future research could expose people who have been drinking to landscapes or the faces of puppies and other animals, “to see if alcohol has a more general effect on perceiving beauty in the environment.

Munafo continued:

It’s also surprising to see this effect is happening at lower doses than you might think, we’re trying to build up a more complete picture of what happens when people go out for a drink, and we’re interested in certain behaviours that are more common after drinking, such as unsafe sex, or violence. If this effect is happening at lower doses than expected, it might be helpful for people who are predisposed to such behaviours to anticipate those situations and prevent them.

The scientists also want to vary the levels of alcohol that volunteers receive; but there are practical and ethical constraints around how much alcohol they can give people in the lab.

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September 25th, 2008

Women with dyed hair are more sexually confident

Blonde Marilyn MonroeScientists have found that blondes really do have more fun, are more confident, and more likely to initiate sex.

Researchers at Nottingham Trent University said that women who dye their hair experience an increase in feelings of attractiveness to the opposite sex and increased general confidence.

This means that bottle blondes are more likely to ask someone out on a date, or even to raise the topic of a pay increase with their boss.

Dr Mark Sergeant, who led the study, said the changes in behaviour were “significant“.

He continued:

Colouring your hair may seem like an art to most people, but there is actually a lot of science behind it.

Not only were their confidence and mood levels elevated but also their inhibitions seemed to be mitigated, with many reporting feeling more attractive and sexually exciting.

There was a marked improvement in the ability to express their opinions and ask for things that they may not ask for ordinarily in a work environment.

The study, commissioned by Clairol, also found that women who dye their hair blonde were more likely to question authority at work or raise complaints.

Additionally, more than 50 percent of the 205 women studied said they coloured their hair solely to “get attention” from strangers or “be noticed” by friends and colleagues.

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September 24th, 2008

The Biochemistry of status

Anyone reading contemporary Seduction literature would undoubtedly come to the conclusion that there is only one way to find a lover; and that is to become the most dominant person on the planet.

This is clearly nonsense, but enough people seem to believe that because this is vaguely similar to how monkey mating systems operate, it must be completely true for human beings, and no correspondence will be entered into…

But, can one become more dominant? And is there any truth in the fake-it-till-you-make-it theories of modern self-styled Seductionists?

Interestingly, back in 1982, UCLA neuroscientist Michael McGuire and his colleagues carried out some research on relative position in local primate groups, and showed that status appears to affect, and be affected by, concentrations of the neurotransmitter Serotonin (a chemical which regulates moods and behaviour).1 As an example, in one of their studies, involving nineteen groups of adult Vervet monkeys, McGuire and his team found that concentrations of Serotonin metabolites in cerebrospinal fluid samples taken from the dominant member in each group were approximately 50 percent higher than the corresponding concentrations in samples taken from subordinate animals.

Is this difference the effect or the cause of high status?

To investigate this question McGuire and his team removed the initially dominant animal from each group and placed him in an isolation cage. Shortly thereafter, a new individual established dominance within each group; and after roughly 72 hours had elapsed, Serotonin concentrations in the newly dominant animal were found to have risen to the levels seen in the formerly dominant animal. At the same time, the Serotonin concentrations in the formerly dominant animal fell to the level associated with subordinate status. Then, once the initially dominant animal was returned to the group, he reasserted dominance; and Serotonin concentrations in both the originally dominant animal and interim-dominant animals responded accordingly.1 These patterns suggest that changes in rank cause changes in serotonin levels.

In a subsequent study, Michael Raleigh and his collaborators found that higher Serotonin concentrations also appear to facilitate the acquisition of higher status.2 Their experiment involved administration of a drug that boosted available Serotonin concentrations in the brain. Animals treated with this drug were more likely to ascend in the social hierarchy than others treated with a placebo.

The Serotonin-status relationship is less clearly understood in humans than in non-human primates. But there are indications that the patterns found in the primate studies are apparently also present in at least some human groups. McGuire and his colleagues, for example, have found elevated Serotonin levels in the leaders of college fraternities and athletic teams. In another study, Douglas Madsen found that the status-Serotonin relationship is positive for some groups of male college students.3

Like Dopamine, Norepinephrine, and other neurotransmitters, Serotonin affects mood and behaviour in a variety of ways. It is especially important for transmitting impulses between nerve cells in the limbic (prefrontal) structures of the brain. Then (within limits), having elevated Serotonin concentrations is associated with enhanced feelings of wellbeing, while Serotonin deficiencies are associated with a variety of affective disorders, including irritability, sleep disorders, mania, and depression.4 More recent work suggests that Serotonin deficiencies are also strongly linked with impulsive aggression and suicide attempts.5 The drug Prozac, widely prescribed for depression and other mood disorders, is a Serotonin uptake inhibitor, which means that it increases the effective concentrations of Serotonin in the brain.

In males, concentrations of the sex hormone Testosterone appear to have a relationship with status similar to the one seen for Serotonin. Reductions in status thus tend to be followed by reductions in plasma testosterone levels, whereas these levels tend to raise following increases in status.6 A player who wins a tennis match decisively, for example, experiences a post-match elevation in plasma Testosterone, and his vanquished opponent experiences a post-match reduction.

References:

1. McGuire, M., M. Raleigh & G. Brammer, ‘Sociopharmacology‘, Annual Review of Pharmacology and Toxicology (1982), 22: 643-61
2. Raleigh, M., G. Brammer, E. Ritvo & E. Geller, ‘Effects of Chronic Fenfluramine on Blood Serotonin, Cerebrospinal fluid Metabolites, and Behavior in Monkeys‘, Psychopharmacology (1986), 90: 503-508
3. Madsen, D., ‘Serotonin and Social Rank Among Human Males‘, The Neurotransmitter Revolution: Serotonin, Social Behavior, and the Law (Southern Illinois University Press: 1994)
4. Coppen, A., ‘Role of Serotonin in Affective Disorders‘, Serotonin and Behaviour (Academic Press: 1973)
5. Coccaro, E.F., ‘The Biology of Aggression‘, Scientific American, January-February (1995), 38-47
6. Elias, M., ‘Serum Cortisol, Testosterone, and Testosterone-Binding Globulin Responses to Competitive Fighting in Human Males‘, Aggressive Behavior 7 (1981) 3:215-224; Mazur, A., T. Lamb, ‘Testosterone, Status, and Mood in Human Males‘, Hormones and Behavior (1980), 14: 236-246; Mazur, A., ‘Physiology, Dominance, and Aggression in Humans‘, Prevention and Control of Aggression, (Pergamon General Psychology: 1983)

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September 23rd, 2008

Sexually active girls more prone to depression than virgins

Young girls who are sexually active are far more likely to suffer from depression than those who remain virgins, according to a controversial new study.

Research which appeared recently in the Journal of Health Economics has found that young girls who are sexually active often experience feelings of guilt, low self-esteem, regret and shame, and are far more likely to suffer from depression than those who remain chaste.

After conducting a study of more than 14,000 US teens aged between 14 and 17, using data from the U.S. government funded National Longitudinal Survey of Adolescent Health, researchers said the feelings could be directly ascribed to sexual activity, rather than outside influences. Furthermore, researchers also found that the mental health of boys in the same age group did not correlate with sexually active.

The study found that having sex doubled the chances of girls becoming depressed, with 19 percent of those who had sex exhibiting symptoms of depression, compared with 9.2 percent who had abstained.

The conclusion the study reached was that “sexually active female adolescents are at increased risk of exhibiting the symptoms of depression relative to their counterparts who are not sexually active.

Christian Medical Fellowship chairman Dr Trevor Stammers said the study showed:

[most girls] retrospectively showed regret about early intercourse.

It also shows as closely as we have been able to show so far that there is a genuine link between increased risk of depression and adolescent females engaging in sex

My experience is that, for girls, depression, regret and shame are very common.

Posted by Jonathan as Anthropology, Psychology at 11:07 PM GMT

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September 22nd, 2008

The art of seduction or seduction of art?

ArtistSeduction Labs holds the belief that good sex and quality relationships are the natural rights of everyone living on this planet – pretty much like sunlight, clean water and fresh air

However, at least once a week some feeble-minded, overexcited salesperson sends a missive, adamant that their sex toys, porn films, nutraceuticals or e-books will be the thing to cause an epiphany here in the labs, and convert free thinking pragmatists into corporate evangelists.

Just recently though, we were very surprised to be offered a Seduction university course to advertise – whereby one could become a ‘Seduction Artist‘ – Yes, we visited the website and they even have a picture of ivy covered buildings and dreaming spires – Presumably this is where they hold the tutorials, and would certainly be a very relaxing atmosphere for studying. However, they did omit to mention whether they were offering an honours course or not.

There are just two small problems:

  1. Seduction doesn’t need more than an hour or two of formal education
  2. Seduction as an ‘art‘ reveals the flawed, childish thinking of the various commercial seduction operations.

Everyone knows that if they studied a subject such as History or Geography etc., they would be rewarded with a Bachelor or Master of Arts degree. This is because these subjects are taught as ‘facts‘; and indeed, it’s very unlikely that I could persuade anyone that the Battle of Hastings didn’t happen in 1066, or that the capital of France wasn’t Paris…

Equally, nobody in their right mind would consider seduction as a science. This is because science looks at knowledge on a continuum; which means that scientific theories only become more and more likely to be correct, as experimentation continues to confirm them; whereas one successful disproving means that the knowledge in that theory needs to be reworked to incorporate the newly discovered information.

So, unfortunately, in terms of seduction, there are far too many aspects which do not remain constant over time, as would be expected within a science-like field of study. And, no self-proclaimed seduction ‘art‘ practitioners seem interested to cease their persistent ‘advocacy‘ in favour of ‘research‘, or even to put just a little effort into testing their assorted hypothesises – assuming that these seduction ‘art‘ supporters ideas could even be reconstructed into something capable of being disproved.

For these reasons, I cannot understand the seduction ‘art‘ brigade. And indeed, the last time I visited one of their boy’s clubs, there was debate about whether one should read books and go out and practise, or whether it was better to read nothing and go on an expensive seduction course. There should be no debate; expensive seduction courses are invariably fronted by fraudsters and are a waste of money.

It amazes me that anyone is prepared to give even an iota to these charlatans, with there unsubstantiated claims of ‘secret techniques‘, which invariably turn out to be freely available in numerous public internet forums, and are usually ignored by the vast majority of people, because the information is either out-of-date, or just didn’t work in the first place.

What about if one were to enrol as a student of some seduction university? Aside from being bombarded with information having little or no real world application, we know of no commercial seduction outfit that has ever failed any of its students. Therefore, anyone could snooze through the entire course, and finish the training claiming to be an advanced master seducer (or some similar self-styled title) – and then start up their own equally silly school of nonsense, to continue a cycle of lunacy and fraud.

The numerous Psychic schools and Crystal energy quack training courses seem to operate in a very similar fashion, and we’re looking forward to seeing the latest European consumer protection laws putting a stop to this criminal activity.

Posted by Jonathan as Art & Literature, Philosophy at 9:18 PM GMT

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September 21st, 2008

Troubled teenage girls have sex earlier

Teenage girls from poor neighbourhoods with conduct issues are more likely to have sex at an early age, according to a joint Canadian-American study.

Researchers from the Université de Montréal, the University of New Brunswick and New England’s Tufts University also found that girls from disadvantaged backgrounds were more likely to engage in sexual intercourse in early adolescence, and to be doing so with boys three years or more older.

Lead author Dr. Véronique Dupéré said:

The results suggest that neighborhoods shape peer groups, which in turn influences when girls become sexually active

Girls with a history of conduct problems were found to be more likely to have deviant and older male friends when they lived in a disadvantaged context

Deviant peers are thought to provide a pool of willing partners and cultivate a sense that early sexual activity is desirable.

The study, published in the journal Child Development, is based on the National Longitudinal Survey of Children and Youth. The research team used a sub-sample of boys and girls from this survey, a total of 2,596 Canadian adolescents, of which one quarter of were found to live in poor neighbourhoods.

The participants were followed from the ages of 12 to 15, and in addition to neighbourhood and peer characteristics, family characteristics were also considered, including socio-economic background and family structure.

Conduct problems were self-reported in late childhood or when participants were 10 or 11 years old. At-risk behaviours included physical aggression (e.g. bullying, fighting, kicking), destructive tendencies (e.g. vandalism, stealing) and violation of rules (e.g. running away, staying out all night). Subjects were considered to have conduct problems if they had engaged in three at-risk behaviours during one year – Of the sample, 13 percent were considered to have conduct problems.

The study found that unlike girls, boys from a disadvantaged background did not become sexually active earlier in their adolescence.

Dr Dupéré noted:

Family and individual risk appeared more influential in boy’s timing their first sexual experience.

Then, emphasizing the importance of the study:

Identifying when and why young girls become sexually active is important in a public health perspective. Other studies show that early initiators are more likely to contract sexually transmitted diseases, undergo unwanted teen pregnancy and to report involuntary sexual experiences.

Posted by Jonathan as Anthropology, Sociology at 11:42 PM GMT

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